Saturday, February 14, 2009

How Not to Be Single Next Valentine's Day!

If you’re single this Valentine’s Day, it’s easy to slide into being bummed out.

But feeling blue isn’t going to help you attract a new love. What will help is staying positively focused on your goal ofcreating an amazing new relationship.

In fact, finding a new partner may take shifting some of your current attitudes, emotions, and actions. By knowing how to use these 3 factors to your advantage, you can become a Soulmate Magnet- ensuring that next Valentine’s Day you get to celebrate with a sweetie by your side!

How to Transform V-day, into your new Vision Day

1. Shift Your Attitude: Refine Your Vision

Your thoughts are like magnets, working to attract to you that which you focus on.

To draw in your perfect partner like a mighty magnet, you need to have a crystal clear of vision of the love you desire.

So sit down and craft your own ‘Happily Ever After’ Love story. Create an amazing scene with vivid detail of you and your new partner sharing an incredible time.

Then step into this vision, with as much positive emotion as you can, at least a few times a day.

2. Shift Your Emotion: Embody Appreciation

Appreciation and gratitude are two of the most powerful attractors.

By choosing to focus on what you are grateful for, you allow more positive things to flow into your life.

Practice expressing appreciation every day, for even the little things, and soon, you’ll have something big to be grateful for, a wonderful new love.

3. Shift Your Action: Don’t Miss Out on the Romance

Thoughts of Self-Doubt (I’m not good, thin, smart, pretty enough) and Lack (There aren’t enough good men left!) often hinder your ability to attract a great partner.

By romancing yourself this holiday, you are showing your subconscious that:
1) You really are worthy of being treated as special and
2) There really are indulgences available for you to enjoy.

Plus, love is a circuit- what goes out, must come in. So by focusing on giving love, especially to yourself, you’re opening the door for a loving partner to arrive.

Shifting just these 3 things on a regular basis really can alter your whole love life. I invite you to try them today!

Want to learn more about becoming a Soulmate Magnet?

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