Thursday, May 14, 2009

Is it Time for Spring Cleaning?: The Power of Completion

Does it feel like something is holding your love life back, but you're not sure what?

You are probably being sabotaged by a Lack of Completion.

When things from your past are not fully completed, it’s like there is a heavy anchor chaining you to the past, keeping you from moving full steam ahead to attract your soulmate.

Almost worst, it’s like you’ve left little pieces of yourself back there, so that now, you no longer feel whole, complete.

In his book, Five Wishes, Gay Hendricks talks about his wish for "completion." For him that meant: "As I go through life, there's nothing significant I leave unsaid or undone."

On his healing journey- he goes back and says and does all of the things he knew he should have done- so that he could be in full integrity, in the present. He found that he felt 100 pounds lighter.

That lightness & wholeness is what you need to attract your soulmate.

Without that completion, it’s like you’ve dropped dozens of small and larger anchors in the past- all sucking your energy, vitality, and your ability to be a soulmate magnet!

So, it’s time for Spring Cleaning.

But this will be unlike any spring cleaning you’ve done before!

This spring, I challenge you to do a Completion Clean Up.

Our goal: To clean up anything that hasn’t been completed from your past.

We’re not necessarily talking about all the things on your current To-Do list here.

Similar to Gay Hendrick’s concept, we’re talking about all of the emotionally important things you’ve left unsaid and undone, ESPECIALLY related to past relationships.

I’m encouraging you to wipe your love slate clean by creating closure in every major relationship you’ve ever had. If there is anything you still need to say or do, to once and for all, KNOW you’ve done what you needed to do- NOW is the time to do it!

It’s only from a place clear of past attachments or weights, that we can generate the clarity and freedom to move forward and attract a healthy, happy love that lasts. Liberated from the chains of the past, completion will set you free to create soulmate love!

I invite you to create your own Completion List now and act on it!

5 Steps to Completion

1. Write down a list of all of the major or emotionally significant relationships you’ve ever had in your life. (Or anything else that springs to mind that needs attention for closure.)

2. One by one, consider your experiences with each person and wonder:

Is there anything I’ve left unsaid or undone with this person?
Is there anything that still feels bad to me about the way I’ve left it?
Is there anything I need to do for closure?
Is there anything I need to do to be in full integrity?

3. Write down a clear statement of anything that needs completion. Include what you intend to do AND a date by which you commit to doing it.

If it's not possible to get in contact with someone- don't skip them! Try one of the following: do the process in your mind, have a ritual, write a letter you never send or have someone bear witness to what you wanted to say or do.

4. After each time you do something on your list, make some notes about how it feels to have done that completion.

Remember, a successful completion isn’t really about how the other person responds to you (you won’t always get a welcome reception!), but about YOU doing what YOU need for YOU to feel like YOU are in integrity.

5. Once you’ve finished acting on your entire Completion List, it’s time to have a ritual to cut the chains from those heavily weighted past anchors and to call back all of the little pieces of yourself you left behind- so you stand free and whole in the Now.

In fact, next Monday, May 18th, at noon Mountain Time we’ll be doing a Completion Visualization for Meditation Monday. If this idea of Completion is compelling to you, I encourage you to attend and get a jump start on your list. If you can’t make it, we’ll have it posted on the blog for you to listen to later.

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This spring, create the space for clear sailing ahead! Give yourself the gift of a clean slate so you’ll be ready to attract your real soulmate and create the love you deserve!

Readers: Let me know how your Spring Completion Clean Up goes!! And if you run into any problems, I'll help you troubleshoot!

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